Standing in grace, allowing mercy..... He did it for each one of us. Is it hard to do when you feel attacked? Yes, certainly. Can you achieve this and not buckle under to be the door mat you feel like? Yes, certainly. Can we see Jesus in the midst of conflict - or even see Jesus in US in the midst of conflict? Yes, certainly. Is it pretty..... most of the time, not!
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